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This segment is featured as a means to open conversations with your spouse in your sensual lives. There are real issues we often either do not ask about, find it awkward, or live believing our thoughts are wrong or misguided. Please use this forum as a way to ask questions, and help others with direction that has helped you. ~ Eros Administrators
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Topic: Sexting (texts with sexual content)
Question- I want to spice up our marriage, and one way I have heard of is by sending my husband sexy pictures and posts through texting. I am a bit nervous or apprehensive, but I am totally willing. I think it could be a turn on, but how do I do this and not come across corny or awkward?
Topic: Masturbation
Question- I believe I am normal guy when it comes to this topic, but when me and my wife are not having sex (sometimes for 2 or more weeks) I can't get her to even give me a hand job often times? She doesn't seem into it I guess, but she does sometimes and it is great when it happens. I love her very much but how do you go about making this a better situation for us both?
Topic: Not Reaching Orgasm
Question- Am I alone with this... Ladies, why is it so hard to reach orgasm? I can't seem to relax (being calm) when we have sex, and though I am thoroughy enjoying it, it seems to take me forever to get there, and often times I don't. I do use a vibrator also, and sometimes that takes me a while. It makes my husdand feel bad because he gets there everytime. I tell him that it's not him, but I know it hurts him that I'm not getting there sometimes. Who else has this problem, and what can I do to reach orgasm better?
Topic: Using Toys During Lovemaking
Question- My husband suggested me using a vibrator during our lovemaking,
and at first it made me feel kind of kinky or dirty, guess because I have seen them in porno movies in the past... but the more I think of it, it could really help me get to orgasm better. Are using adult toys (dildos or vibrators) considered wrong as a believer in Christ. I need to hear from other Christians in this area, and how it did or didn't help their sex lives. Thanks!